"LOVE IS NOT JUST ... TRUST IN THE BACK? NEW 
There are times when we get a text, a picture or a sound that speaks for ourselves but what you have written or made another person. Not a chance, but things may not feel so different from one and other. Ultimately, we are all-or-try to be human and feel as such!
But the funny thing, and while great, is displayed at that precise time, perhaps, we need someone else to read it make it our own and put words to our own sense! Not a chance, but a "sync " more, a sign of our life! If, for some reason, we are unable to write or express what we feel, is life itself, who writes for us, who gives us the words or the image of someone else let us out see what we feel in our Inside ... and perhaps disturbs us or worry us.
Someone close may decide to leave quietly so as not caused more suffering or simple fear, a beautiful dream that seems to dissolve without becoming reality, a difficult time that we have difficulty seeing beyond, or from above-for continue ... moments that we all have the urge to understand, to look for reasons to unreason, of giving them words to explain the pain and helplessness we feel ...
And suddenly, I get a text alien who does it for us, but it also reminds us that, from the heart, things are different, that everything passes and essentially remains forever in us, Despite appearances, despite our pain duration until the next light into our lives or the lives of the people who really want! Is not that trust and love life? Is not leave to make his life , confident that most of us know and what we should at all times? Should we not let go, and then return to receive and feel more love and at the right time? Does not always a true and proper sense everything that happens in our lives ... and seek reasons and arguments is not to be afraid of it? Do not need to get the black night and then out again see the sun even more radiant? "Trust is not simply love?
Miguel Benavent de B.
I bring here a splendid text of my virtual friend Cori Caniza. It is a manifesto of his personal principles, as always, manages to llegarte just when you feel that way! Read it and draw your own conclusions ...
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If they wait to hear what they want, I'm not the person. Only say what I think and feel.
If you expect help selflessly, count me out.
If you expect objectivity and different views, it will give them.
If you expect someone with good character all the time, are at the wrong person.
If they wait to discover each one of my moods, I have a collection of them.
If they expect to compete with me, as I have with my ego enough to see who dominates.
hurt If you wait, you get to say enough.
If you expect to enlarge your ego, I can serve for a while but I'm not what they need.
If you wait just sex, I'm not a girl for fun (too much running around to be one more).
If they expect love, I have enough (48 kilos of pure love.)
If hope is yours, do not belong to anyone but myself.
If you choose to be with me, I will choose to be with you.
If you expect to understand, too much understanding.
If they want acceptance, accept of heart.
if after reading the note that you agree to the request, here I am friend with a commitment to take my hand the same to you !!!!!
Cori Caniza
... THE SALES! 
makes me think this new year and the January sales! Perhaps because of the emphasis, perhaps you should ignore the ads on the right side of my Facebook profile, I suggest what to do with my life and remind me that sales start now! "Do you want a girlfriend?" "Looking dates with the prettiest girls in town?". "You want to know liberal girls? "" You want discreet sex? " " Looking for a partner? "," Do you want to find the woman of your dreams? "..." With our system of psychological analysis will help you find the perfect relationship ... ". The truth? Confide Do not know if or when to ignore and let someone find myself a woman of my life in this new year! In any case, I do not know which side I have seen me or what man's profile I have discovered these so-called marketing experts to make me many proposals of the same type and so constantly! Am I really as someone thinks I'm a dirty old man ?
things considered, it might be my Christmas present hidden or bargain to look for in sales! Fix my life because they have a partner! A good friend, not long ago, I was talking about someone else said: " now dating someone, you know, love cover many things." How right he was, referring to a person who has life "upside down and now dating someone, so distracted from the need-in this case, urgent-ordering his life first, then power share it with someone you love! Think aloud what human beings have need to share only the shortcomings and weaknesses of a bad time with someone else! Input I think that I prefer to share the best of myself and not just my problems ... or at least, share my own growth and not just my personal block and hopefully temporary!
Just the other day I jokingly threatened to my beloved daughter to "find a girlfriend " during this new year started! He had only time to say " not even dream about, dad ... you can not have a girlfriend ." And my daughter wants me to herself, not share with anyone else! She, as a good female and her 10-year-old has already made its own plans and calculations on your life ... and mine: "I several still missing years to have a boyfriend and by the time it arrives, you already will be old and you no longer have a girlfriend . "Performed and sunk! So, until then, I am yours and yours alone! It makes me reflect on the ownership of many women, that will ensure a good company or the eternal presence of "man in her life " are able to bind with chains and gag the victim of his property, whether a child or a perfect lover! Needless to say, all too common that female mania is rooted in his lack of self esteem and false belief that they are unable, by themselves, keeping her hand to someone who is worthwhile and that at the first opportunity and not to avoid, flee from your life!
Well, I doubt that finding a girlfriend of my challenges this new year begins these days, even if you have sales! Mostly because, for better or for worse, my life is now and always has been full of women! Surely there is a merit, but "how to explain it, without hurting the ego of my peers, nor arouse their envy, I know its nature and arrived safely in the female soul, because it is so different to mine! Although I must admit that every day, I note that, as happens to themselves, the more women know, less understand! Joking aside, I survived, just barely, it's true, a mother Gemini ie, two mothers in one! And my grandmother, my mother's mother ... which is something! If you also add, or perhaps a consequence of this, my sensitivity, awareness and constant concern for expressing my own feelings, it makes me toggle between a man admired and coveted by women or a gay state latent! Well, needless to say that labeling trivial, perverse and, in many cases, malicious, reflects social myopia and, worse, denigrated women and sensitive man ... again!
And, back to the January sales, we should remember that the discounts are often settled balances and seasonal products just. And that, I think, is extensible, with forgiveness and non-hurt feelings, the women offered to the highest bidder at an attractive price, often below its own cost! If a person is willing to "go with any ," perhaps it is because it considers itself " a any" ... and forgive the irony and double meaning! Low self-esteem much behind the bad habit of not knowing how to be alone! And needless to say I can not support a person-male or female, who cares, who does not want to one's self and to replace him for loving me; although it with passion and madness!
Well, even if not yet negotiated inflexible with my dear daughter, I keep thinking about how the alleged woman of my life! A woman who does not need me to breathe, to live, not to be happy, that is respected, understood and loves itself ... much as he respects me, understands me or loves me! having enthusiasm for life through his spirit young ... and accepts it as is, although sometimes it may cost, you get each new day as an opportunity to live and grow, that she recognize her fear when it does, but that can change is created by love, who can live and create unique moments, magical and intense, from the soul, and to be able to live real life and turn it into a dream, you know that love and happiness shared is better! If, moreover, is attractive, charming, elegant, human ... the better!
Miguel Benavent de B.
