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the curious and controversial subject of maturity! How often have I heard women comment on the absence of mature man! Is perhaps true that maturity is a rare commodity in our world, where it is much easier and more convenient self-deception, evading reality living in a fantasy world to reign leaving Ego and complacency! But maturity is not a virtue nor an exclusive attribute of man ... or woman! Is a free choice that brings an attitude that demands courage and tenacity.

Although we must admit that the traditional role ajudicado (or autoadjudicado?) The man, in many cases, parapet or prevent personal growth and makes it prevail in the Ego! However, maturity is a human acitud only requires courage, will and perseverance, both men and women. Perhaps it is true that women, more connected to their emotions, and therefore his soul, is better equipped, in principle, to mature ... I suppose it has something to do with his role as educator of their children emotionally and therefore, the future of the species. Still do not believe in this vision of human growth sexist ...

But the fact is that unfortunately we are too distracted in our life to grow! In his day believed that maturity comes with age ... and, apparently seen, apparently not! Myself, I passed from childhood to rottenness ... probably going sideways for maturity! And a few years, I intend to return back to maturity! Is it because I understand that so well with younger l @ s! The truth is that, over the years and I see that people do as I did: moving from naivete to be vicious, living life as if it were always more of the same! And if something is life is that each new day is a new life, but we persist in the opposite! In this sense, trust me, it's worth going back and realize you've lived half your life in ignorance, without percatarte of what was really happening around you ... and the other half, lamenting what she has lost in the live well, like the best of your life still was not stopping by!

Someone said that " life is all that you still to live "and this statement coming from a 89 year old, should be him right, even for his long gray hair experience! But the truth is that, having been too many years with a blindfold on when at the end you get rid of it, life seems something new! you changed my environment? Has not maybe my life itself? Certainly, in essence, either! What it has changed my way of see it and live it ... and to be fully aware of the reality, which is not little! "consists in this the maurez, perhaps? For surely yes, maturity is being aware of the reality of self, of what around us ... and life in general ... and live as one is and feels!

Miguel Benavent de B.

Here I bring you back a text that explains masterfully Cori Caniza what is maturity! Every time I read this virtual friend asked me why I keep writing, if she expresses much better than me! Is it because she is a woman? Is it because it is ripe? I do not know, read the text of his precious it yourself and answer these questions ...

If indeed the diamond is forged in fire, if indeed the diamond is formed to strokes, if indeed the diamond is made over time. Today I am grateful to the trials, today I am grateful to adversity, not a diamond, but my soul grow, conquer my mission and see everything but would not like ... rm with love, the love shine in my eyes, my smile and my life shines more and worth more than a diamond. I'm just an apprentice
these experiences, I'm just a traveler who loves to live. And grateful for the way it is shown, understands and knows that it is an opportunity to meet and breathe new air. Go
mature is to stop blaming all the situations around you of your unhappiness, is to embrace the sorrows of love and see them learning. To mature is to open your eyes and divine blessing of stumbling blocks in them because you realize that your feet have been strengthened and your hands have formed a callus from which no fall the bleed more. Go
mature is to observe the seasons of life, relationships stations, stations in the same body is to understand that just as everything has a cycle, we also evolve the spring after a cold winter and that whatever happens we can not avoid it, is to love the cold, lean winter your soul is reborn.
I have no fear to grow, I have no fear of being responsible, not fear or run away from myself. I understand and agree
in love stage of my life, my great masterpiece, conscious act the role I want, I control, I polish, I love him. Go
mature is to remember that nothing belongs to us more than ourselves, we do not own the decisions of others is weaned from my mother and my father is to grow with strong knees and strong legs to avoid muletas.Ir mature is to face the pain, anguish and the penalties as they come, do not run of them, if something makes my heart ache I inquire, I cry, tears my soul empty and then fill it with love and embrace the experience, I am aware of what brings me learning. Go
mature is to build my character, is to learn to say no when it matures
desire is to put aside my pride and admit that I am in misery if I'm living, not bad, not terrible, is not catastrophic ... only love is an experience and I am grateful to live and I know that sooner or later like the phoenix reborn from the ashes and all my light and my power will ascend to my own kingdom, my own throne. Go
while controlling ripening is definitely uncontrollable, not wear my energy. Go
mature is to see the scars of age, experience, and the tribulations of intent and love them, not delete them, just heal, is to see them and feel no pain and no longer bleeding from the wound healed as I've matured, but never forget the experience, so they are there, why they occur. Go
maturing is not riddled with mistakes, I understand that I have errors, I understand I have a lot to polish, I understand that for more steps really come up knowledge does not stop, never stop, there is always another goal, another experience to conquer, love grow, mature love, forgiving love, love lean. Go

maturing is seen in the iris of every human being precious and blessed my own essence, forget the fighting, forgetting the damage done as I am able to observe his divinity.

Today I feel my heart center as big as the infinite cosmos, then you fit you, it that, fits all, because I love, the honor, bless and thank the co-exist with me. At this stage comedies and tragedies, in this blessed life scenario, in this blessed land scenario. I love you my brother / sister Cori

Caniza

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MATURITY IN SEARCH OF TRUE FRIENDS

Sometimes it amazes me the attitude of certain people, I admit! The other day someone refused my offer of friendship, saying that she just wanted " good friends" and I already had 3,000-odd contacts into Facebook! Well, I thanked the rejection message, above all, respect for freedom of everyone to have the life you want. You may not lose anything by giving up my friendship, but I told him that neither in life nor in real the virtual looking good friends so the first! I am driven by my intuition, work to create and maintain a friendship ... and let life flow!

And now reflect on the attitude of those people who, from time to time, deny a friendship ... in real life or virtual! And think how much fear, or mistrust and / or pain-are in such a waiver! In general, I see a lot of suffering and distrust of what we encounter daily in our lives! Would basically agree if each and every one of us were already perfect, already requiriéramos not anything or anyone to improve. I also think of the possibly bad experiences of these individuals to give up an unknown door ... but open, when the opportunity arises. It is also true that, as is our crazy world, we must be careful not to expose people who act unscrupulous, manipulative or malicious, that can hurt us the first opportunity! We must also remember that in many cases, we will not be led by intuition, looks can be deceiving ... and what comes into our life is not always the best apparently!

So much confidence we have in ourselves to reject something you know? Do not we trust our intuition? Do we believe that the new-come just as we have already experienced? Are we satisfied with what we have in our lives? Are we happy now? I'm from which he thinks and feels, that every new person is a new opportunity ... to get it right or wrong, again! There are many examples! But I also know that both ends-the successes and mistakes-are needed in my life ... although I prefer to be alerted to the pain, it's true! And so today I trust my own intuition, which does not usually fail-... and over time, to realize the reality of that person and discover what life brings to me, a success ... or a lesson to learn!

But the truth is that in real life, Facebook or any other world "virtual or real" people who come are not tattooed their intention or their attitude to us! The "good friends "do not carry a label of" good friends "when they come into our lives. The" good person "does not carry a label of" good people "visible, clear and permanent. There will be well aware, to discover the time will tell what role each person in our lives! anyone born as a "friend" and maybe end up as " love", another was born as "love" and may end up as "enemy " was born as a more simple " known" and end up as someone who will be forever in our lives! In any case, what is certain is that each person plays a role given in our lives and all are equally necessary to live ... that is, to learn ... and grow!

Obviously, we can not always pre-choose-the people who inhabit our environment. Family, friends, friends of friends, coworkers, acquaintances, neighbors ... make staff ecosystem each of us and constitute our lives, like it or not! Sometimes, they have the opportunity to accept or reject their presence, but in others, we have no choice but to share with them a few moments or even years of our lives! Freedom is earned day by day y. .. Will this time the people around us will be elected by oneself? Probably will never come, indeed, life is made of contrasts and risk ... but will certainly come the freedom to act at all times and with each one, like yourself decide ... and not only conditioned by our history! But still, people need new provide us lessons, insights and experiences different from our life! In the end, living a full life means no more than take the risk to what's ahead and learn it!

If we now look back at our history, we would see, with surprise how little will have fulfilled our promises and desires regarding the majority of people in our life! I would say that is rare for a particular person, really, has done what we had planned with her! Not even our closest relatives-and, theoretically, known, seem to have fulfilled that role previously assigned to any family members. The fact is that every person has a sense in our lives that is life itself who unravel the mystery, with the passage of time! What plan and / or create expectations with someone, if then it will be the life that will decide what is and makes every person in our lives? Why can not believe we can create the relationships that we, in our own attitude and the other person? Why the immediate and spontaneous distrust in ourselves, in others and in life, without even giving us the right to really trust ... perhaps for the first time in our lives? After all, life is an opportunity, not a trap to fall ... though sometimes we seem so! ;-)

Miguel Benavent de B.

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