Sometimes it amazes me the attitude of certain people, I admit! The other day someone refused my offer of friendship, saying that she just wanted " good friends" and I already had 3,000-odd contacts into Facebook! Well, I thanked the rejection message, above all, respect for freedom of everyone to have the life you want. You may not lose anything by giving up my friendship, but I told him that neither in life nor in real the virtual looking good friends so the first! I am driven by my intuition, work to create and maintain a friendship ... and let life flow!
And now reflect on the attitude of those people who, from time to time, deny a friendship ... in real life or virtual! And think how much fear, or mistrust and / or pain-are in such a waiver! In general, I see a lot of suffering and distrust of what we encounter daily in our lives! Would basically agree if each and every one of us were already perfect, already requiriéramos not anything or anyone to improve. I also think of the possibly bad experiences of these individuals to give up an unknown door ... but open, when the opportunity arises. It is also true that, as is our crazy world, we must be careful not to expose people who act unscrupulous, manipulative or malicious, that can hurt us the first opportunity! We must also remember that in many cases, we will not be led by intuition, looks can be deceiving ... and what comes into our life is not always the best apparently!
So much confidence we have in ourselves to reject something you know? Do not we trust our intuition? Do we believe that the new-come just as we have already experienced? Are we satisfied with what we have in our lives? Are we happy now? I'm from which he thinks and feels, that every new person is a new opportunity ... to get it right or wrong, again! There are many examples! But I also know that both ends-the successes and mistakes-are needed in my life ... although I prefer to be alerted to the pain, it's true! And so today I trust my own intuition, which does not usually fail-... and over time, to realize the reality of that person and discover what life brings to me, a success ... or a lesson to learn!
But the truth is that in real life, Facebook or any other world "virtual or real" people who come are not tattooed their intention or their attitude to us! The "good friends "do not carry a label of" good friends "when they come into our lives. The" good person "does not carry a label of" good people "visible, clear and permanent. There will be well aware, to discover the time will tell what role each person in our lives! anyone born as a "friend" and maybe end up as " love", another was born as "love" and may end up as "enemy " was born as a more simple " known" and end up as someone who will be forever in our lives! In any case, what is certain is that each person plays a role given in our lives and all are equally necessary to live ... that is, to learn ... and grow!
Obviously, we can not always pre-choose-the people who inhabit our environment. Family, friends, friends of friends, coworkers, acquaintances, neighbors ... make staff ecosystem each of us and constitute our lives, like it or not! Sometimes, they have the opportunity to accept or reject their presence, but in others, we have no choice but to share with them a few moments or even years of our lives! Freedom is earned day by day y. .. Will this time the people around us will be elected by oneself? Probably will never come, indeed, life is made of contrasts and risk ... but will certainly come the freedom to act at all times and with each one, like yourself decide ... and not only conditioned by our history! But still, people need new provide us lessons, insights and experiences different from our life! In the end, living a full life means no more than take the risk to what's ahead and learn it!
If we now look back at our history, we would see, with surprise how little will have fulfilled our promises and desires regarding the majority of people in our life! I would say that is rare for a particular person, really, has done what we had planned with her! Not even our closest relatives-and, theoretically, known, seem to have fulfilled that role previously assigned to any family members. The fact is that every person has a sense in our lives that is life itself who unravel the mystery, with the passage of time! What plan and / or create expectations with someone, if then it will be the life that will decide what is and makes every person in our lives? Why can not believe we can create the relationships that we, in our own attitude and the other person? Why the immediate and spontaneous distrust in ourselves, in others and in life, without even giving us the right to really trust ... perhaps for the first time in our lives? After all, life is an opportunity, not a trap to fall ... though sometimes we seem so! ;-)
Miguel Benavent de B.
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