Respect is something you should never miss. Respect yourself, others and life! Respect is the first ranking in human relations, followed by understanding and love . Therefore, precisely respect is the prerequisite in any human relationship!
course, if one does not respect himself, hardly be respected by someone else. And to make respected one, just do not appreciate or need, which is almost the same, underestimated! Yes, low self-esteem is the instigator of the lack of respect! My experience tells me that people who have been systematically disparaged, vilified or who have not been respected as such, are more likely to suffer from lack of respect ... themselves and to others! When a person feels that it is not enough, not appreciated and does nothing to be appreciated!
I think in many of these unfortunate cases, the presence of parents are too strict and demanding with their children favors which they suffer from low self-esteem, apart from a certain dependence on its redemptive , parents ... something like Stockholm syndrome, whereby a victim comes to understand and love his executioner ! When I come face to face with a person who comes to me to regain self-esteem, without asking I know that most likely there will be a strong determinant of parent education, from early childhood, have SOCAB your child's self-esteem, although surely appeal to her affection or love it. Needless to say that a person these conditions tend to look in your own life and safety protection of anyone who reincarnate authority, discipline and affection of course the parent! That would explain many of the current situations of abuse suffered by many people in the hands of their partner and, worse still, the acceptance by the person subject!
However, if a person is valued in itself, will have a special sensitivity to any challenge or threat to their personal plot , be it a thought, a feeling or action. Any wrongdoing in this respect, however slight and subtle, will set off alarms. And is that the value of self respect and is certainly not in defending themselves if they feel attacked by someone else! How many atrocities in the name of love have been committed ... without remembering that love can not exist without respect? How many people have given to an alleged love, must give to themselves in order to obtain or retain? Can anyone stop being to then share life without being yourself? Why not be unconditionally believe that someone can never include ceasing to be oneself? Why are we so little value to allow the other to disrespect us and just interested and / or wants to know what we really are?
We are in a flat world , which, from children are taught to judge ... and judge! And that encourages the qualification and disqualification, the good and bad! So good is essential and wrong, however, despicable! No doubt about it! If one is thought worthless as a person, accept any position to be accepted at any cost! And that is certainly the first step that will encourage the total and unbridled ... and renunciation of self, so to be accepted! So, stop judging yourself, accept the uniqueness of each person and value yourself for what is, is the only way to avoid something as frequently as regrettable, as is any lack of respect!
Miguel Benavent de B.
I bring you here a text that speaks precisely, respect! I invite you to read and draw your own conclusions ...
RESPECT
Individuals seem to get the most out of life those with greatness of every day not only tolerate the different natures of people, but they value, celebrate and capitalize on the variety of differences.
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If we can not now end our differences, at least we can help make the world safe for diversity. JOHN F.
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The German philosopher Johann Goethe taught, "Treat a man as it is and will remain as is. Treat a man as you can and should be, and will become as he can and should be. " Moreover, most individuals respond to being treated with respect by raising his thoughts and actions to the same level of respect given to them ... and beyond.
always enjoy stories of individuals apparently "the pile" whose lives shine and flourish as a result of someone interested in them and treated them with respect.
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All human beings from the cradle to the Tomb respond to respect, respond to people who see their hidden potential and they do arise. You can see it in their faces, you can hear in their voices.
"Everyday Greatness" by Stephen Covey.
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