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LEAVE THE EXPECTATIONS ... Selfishness



Until recently, in my life, I always had desires and expectations to achieve! In itself is not bad to have an eye on the future, but it is live only to meet them and ignoring the present. In society, we are required to have the front view, showing drive and initiative to undertake. But the fact is that life does not always agree with our plans or, in any case, decide how and when we reach ... Want

or have specific expectations is only accept a single response to our efforts for something! And in our world that perseverance and effort, we are told that you have your reward! And, for example, purely professional in the field, the question is clear Do more work, more rich you are? Or to be more professional, more considered and recognized you in the business world or insitucional? Rather say that, unless counties and abnormal cases, is completely upside down! In this crazy world it is the presumed winner loyalty, submission and, in most cases, even the mediocrity and lack of initiative! The other-responsibility, leadership and self-determination "is what is scary and / or uncomfortable in some archaic and overly rigid structures, " monotheistic (one authority, unquestioned) and little human! So what do we really deserve ... or just what we deserve?

dedicate our efforts, as mentioned above, is not always rewarded, let alone recognized by others! And that is extensible to any aspect of our lives! The reward, then and in any case, there can be other than his own satisfaction and fulfillment of each person as a person. When you act from within and without expecting anything in return, whatever the result will be well received as the reward and we have been enjoying to perform the action! If, moreover, get recognition and success to others, the better ... but not always necessary! Thus, personal success becomes something very different from what society considers!

For too many years I myself was on a public referendum before any decision or action ... and then sought recognition of others, to reinforce my perception of " did right." So many times we accumulate personal alleged successes through the years ... but, paradoxically, we feel dissatisfied and certainly not sufficient recognition by others, our viewers! Why do not feel good, despite being complacent with others? Why not enough recognition and fame, when we considered persons of proven success, whether personal, social or professional? What keeps us from feeling full and well? Well, precisely, the action seeking only personal recognition, however, not responding to our inner passions! No judge is more strict and harsh with us, ourselves! And when that court made its verdict? Well, precisely when we are alone with ourselves, when anyone or anything distract us or deceive us or, as I say, when we close our eyes before sleep or when we look in the mirror with reflective attitude! So there are no witnesses or mitigating ... reality is revealed alone and naked to oneself!

Miguel Benavent de B.

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