Every day your life is shaped. Despite what you say, do not make plans, let yourself go for it ... but you should know where you're headed! We have been taught to foresee all, to make plans ... but in the end, it is life when you choose the and how ! You only have to be well aware of what is happening around you and, when you know where you are going, these different cincunstancias that cross you have your own way, will aligned with what you expect, deserve and / or want in your life!
If, instead, trying to figure out in advance your way, life will most likely impose your own! Which to draw you a priori is too populous experiences, desires, unfulfilled expectations, bad memories! And life always want to keep you alert well That what you see and live is not conditioned by the past, but anchored in the present and what they feel! Only then are able to live what you really are ... not just what you were or what they might be! You today is nothing more than the sum of experiences, lessons and desires ... ready to be lived! What once were, is only necessary path has brought you here ...
many times have you caught with your own reaction to something unexpected! Surely more than surprised, you've scared yourself, because you did not expect this reaction and was not in your plans or the way you behave! Is it true we have to pull out of our everyday living environment for us to be as we are? The truth is that in our normal environment and eventually learn to survive and, to call it somehow automate our behavior. Thus, it is as if each of us follow preset guidelines and keep himself and others an agreed protocol and appropriate action. Why do we wonder when, for example, after years of cohabitation, one-theoretically near-known and loved to surprise us or disappoint us with a different attitude to what we used to? What do we want our personal relationships we meet and are really rich, if not we can be ourselves with ourselves ... and others?
is perhaps true that be yourself is not always comfortable or easy! Be yourself requires strength and, above all, perseverance ... have a lifetime to get it! But as often happens, the decision to be self is free ... and if something costs the human being is to make decisions! We should recognize, therefore, that if we do not lambasts life somehow, if we strip the ropes hardly feel the need to be ourselves! What can move you decide to be, by choice own? For surely the love ... real!
Perhaps this answer will surprise you! But if you think about it, you'll realize that you act only from within when you feel the urgent need to approach someone you love and show you as they really are! Love, remember, it's delivery, a complete surrender without conditions or strategies possible! But let me tell you before, is a gift of yourself ... and for that before you become one and be proud of it! That, of course, disqualifies conformed to the image of the other, to adapt to your wishes! Love is something that builds on yourself, never in spite of yourself or through your ability to cheat or leave to be ... and / or just your art to attract or seduce! If to love you stop being you, not love! Is need for companionship, it is addictive ... is scary! If you love to keep growing longer not to break new ground in others, that's not love!
If I love myself, I love my growth, my improvement and most of the steps I do to get closer to myself ... He who truly loves me must love what I am today and what tomorrow will be when to continue to grow as a person! If not, this is a love with an expiration date, the victim of a corset that will soon be small ... to go! It will be a "love " fleeting, passenger, maybe to learn by themselves, like anything adverse happens to us in life, because it is based only on what I'm just now! Does this sound have lived, perhaps? To love someone is to have faith in their ability to become, despite the difficulties, despite the circumstances ...
Woody Allen said that love is " like a shark, which lives only if nothing forward and dies if stands still." Despite the irony, very true to say! Although it is simply because to live is to walk continuously ... and love is to live and ride sharing those steps each to himself ... but everyone should go their own way, inescapable! Someone said that love is not just looking at each other, but both look the same direction!
Miguel Benavent de B.
Here I bring a foreign text on the subject. Read it and draw your own conclusions.
not ever stop:
Sometimes everything seems lacking in resources,
sometimes the clock does not stop or run slowly,
sometimes all we see and feel in a negative plan,
... sometimes we get hit with something and find it wrong ...
sometimes seems on night
sometimes seem forgotten details,
sometimes we feel sad and lonely no more
sometimes seems to betray someone ....
In these cases, it should be noted
that despite everything, life is precious,
that the sun shines every day.
And that today is painful, it'll look better tomorrow
,
then, every night, a star
accompanies you and is with you ....
But particularly when this happens, the forces
when you begin to waver, TRUST
someone will be there to lay you a hand.
When the clouds will not let you see the sunshine
, remove it
Well, otherwise,
unable to see the stars
but the darkness of the night .... WHEN
CAN NOT SLEEP DREAM ...¡¡¡
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