Something makes the human being repeat their mistakes! It is difficult to find people who are satisfied with their past or present life, however, we tend to repeat again and again our old patterns over and over again! What predictable and familiar, though, in reality, not sea-gives us a sense of security and control that are not true! I refer to the evidence, we all have a thousand examples! How many of us drag a heavy burden of our past life and our experiences? And yet how many lives would repeat our face value, knowing now how far we have come with it?
It's funny how people, even having lived atrocities in her life, one after another repeated the same erroneous schemes. Needless to say, the human being in theory than in practice, evolves and changes its point of view of what lives, is amprendiendo. It is true that we learn from mistakes, but so is that more chronic and perpetual them gets us further than to underestimate the already disenchanted with her life. Sour faces, disease, low mood, anxiety and low self-esteem are evident symptoms of slow decline that personal ... and collectively, in our world! Not only do not grow, but day by day, we're poorer!
the end, it is true that in "absolute " we will all walk forward in our life! But we make it a long and winding road, instead of trying to pave with effective learning. At one point, each of us feel that gnawing sense of wanting to change something in our lives for the better. But, unfortunately, is a fleeting feeling of discomfort, which causes us no more than a transitory feeling of restlessness. To realize one to do everything possible to remedy our lives, there is only one possible way: the will to change. Will and courage to do it are the necessary ingredients to make the desired change. If you wait just outside assistance-whether of the gods, a therapist or our environment, this change will not happen ever! If we try new experiences without giving a new meaning and we are continuing in the same light to escape from ourselves or from boredom, not enough. It will be more of the same! Every
we all run into an old friend, whom we see for years. Perhaps been a long time and although he glimpsed in some new features, to find it again we see that, having changed their life circumstances, everything continues as before! Have not spent the time to something in your life? What experiences have helped him, if it remains basically the same as it always was? Probably because energy has been spent to assert his personality, with their strengths and weaknesses, along his life, which obviously is very proud, confirming its proven strength, vanity and / or their spirit of survival! Steadfastly persevere in their qualities ... and in its defects! Spend the same amount of energy as falling overcome! And the ego rewards you with far ... while the soul suffers in silence inside!
There are others, however, year after year, are changing, with dignity and step by step! You will find after year, then you realize you have grown! I feel particularly happy when I see they have left behind things superfluous or toxic for themselves! "I've x years without smoking, I have separated or have changed jobs " say some strongly, with pride and poise, As if that were an unparalleled heroism ... and not due to the changing world we live in! And, instead, continue with the same bad habits, such as to deceive themselves or live a life of more fantasy than reality! Where are those emerging strengths and signs of uniqueness that we learned to see in his eyes, perhaps in your youth? Well, probably after the defects and weaknesses that have grown to reach its present! For, no change, and stop growing every day, we not only waterproof, but impoverishes us as people! What needs to change in the world and life of each one to really change things for ever? Surely the answer is only one: that change yourself, what you will, without doubt, a new way of living the same life!
see and live life differently, with its own true sense, does not necessarily change the lived but explains everything and eliminates the chance of our life crazy, always at the mercy of what happens outside of what others think of us and the life that we have had in luck! So no need to change the world but to change our attitude towards it ... and actually do it ours! If we do, every passenger is too, too alienating, too superfluous! Change certain habits, certain customs ... but, like a costume change is involved, just did a " reestiling " passenger and as such, devoid of content! Where does this leave us? A cumulative dissatisfaction and suffocating, the boredom and despair inside! From there to the devotion and resignation to life that many have and feel!
Where, then, our dream of happiness? Well certainly far from all that! The happiness of each one arising out every step we take towards oneself to break the foreseeable liabilities, routine and toxic to ourselves. Every time someone in the face of changing circumstances and adversity, commitment to himself and looking for a meaning to their existence, a glimpse of happiness spring and can be seen in his eyes! I acknowledge that I have always had that special feeling to see that fleeting happiness and hope in her, in the eyes of the people! But my experience has shown that many do not go for that twinkle in his eye, without being able to turn it into a kind of life! And that, believe it, really hurts, because it is human to want the best for someone dear! To achieve real change, that person must first decide to bet on it and have the courage to leave everything that depriving him in his previous life! And although you may need a push from outside, no one can change another's life if he is not convinced by the need to do ... to make living your best life!
Miguel Benavent de B.
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